🔥 “He Was Obsessed, Possessive” – Tems Recounts Toxic Relationship
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Nigerian global music star Tems has opened up about a painful chapter in her past, revealing details about a toxic relationship she once experienced.
The Grammy-winning singer shared that her former partner was obsessive and possessive, making the relationship emotionally draining and unhealthy.
💬 What Tems Said
According to Tems, the relationship started off well but gradually became difficult as her partner began to exhibit controlling behavior.
She revealed that:
Speaking in a candid interview with media personality, Angie Martinez, the Essence crooner said the nature of the relationship was contrary to her belief, stressing that she believes that a healthy relationship is about partnership, not ownership.
Tems said toxic relationship is draining because sometimes the toxic partner are not even aware that they are toxic.
“I have experienced love where I thought it was love but it was more like when someone is trying to own you. They think that they own you. And that’s not love.
“Love is not obsession. And it is not possession. I can’t own another human being. Love is when both of you become one person.
“We don’t own each other, we are each other. I feel everyone has experienced toxic love with someone who doesn’t even know that they are toxic.
“They say they love you but they don’t know that they don’t even love you. Because you can’t love someone you feel you own,” she expressed.
Tems revealed that she was once in a toxic relationship where her partner was obsessed and possessive. She explained that the relationship became controlling and emotionally draining, affecting her peace of mind before she walked away.
❓ FAQs
What did Tems say about her past relationship?
She said her partner was obsessed and possessive, making the relationship toxic.
Why did Tems leave the relationship?
She left because it became emotionally draining and unhealthy.
What can fans learn from this?
To recognize red flags and prioritize peace of mind.
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Sulaimon Hammed is an entertainment writer for TraceNaija.Ng, sharing the latest Nigerian music, celebrity news, and pop culture updates.